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Get Your Toddler Talking: How to Let Your Toddler Help in the Kitchen

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Cooking with your child is a great opportunity for all types of learning – especially language development. Plus, it is a great bonding experience that could lay the foundation for cooking together as your child grows!


Toddler trying new foodsExtra bonus of cooking with your kids: They are more likely to try new foods when they feel a part of the cooking process, have handled the food, and have a sense of pride about what they helped to make! Case in point – Sylvie eating a green bean (She usually turns her nose up at green beans!)



Since I usually do some sort of food prep every day, I’ve really been enjoying that Sylvie is old enough to start to “help” me in the kitchen on occasion (as long as it doesn’t involve the stove top).

At 19 months I thought she might be too young to be interested, but she loves it! I always tell her that she is a big helper, which she loves. At this age, she wants to imitate everything I do anyway, so it seems like the perfect time to introduce cooking!

Cooking with kids for increasing language development
Sorry about the pics of split-pea soup 🙂

During cooking, Sylvie usually stands on a chair right next to me. Lots of people use a Learning Tower – these are popular with the Montessori crowd because they foster independence – and are obviously safer than standing on a chair.


I heard about Learning Towers from a friend of mine. Her husband actually made one! There are plenty of tutorials online if you search for “Ikea Hack Learning Tower” Click here for a link to a good tutorial.

Sylvie loves to watch me do some of the cooking prep as long as she gets a chance to do some of the basic actions like:

Speech Therapy at home with cooking
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• Mixing (with some help)

• Handing me items I need, especially when I’m rinsing a bunch of potatoes!
• Pouring from the measuring cup or can into a bowl
• Putting things in the bowl after I chop them (this is really helpful!)

• Putting on lids

• Putting trash in the trashcan

Here are some tips on using this type of activity specifically for language development:


For a child at any stage of language development:

• Narrate what you are doing in short sentences and phrases like “Pour in,” “Cut banana,” or “Mommy is mixing.” This is called Self-Talk – click here to learn more about using self-talk.

For Pre-Talkers:

o If your child is not talking yet, have her ask for a turn by patting her chest and then you can model what she will eventually say: “My turn.”

o Work on following simple, 1-2 word directions like “Put in,” “Top on,” “Give me ___” and “All done.”

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“Top On”

For Beginning Talkers:

o If your child is beginning to talk, repeat the word he said and then expand by one-two words. So if he says, “Banana” then you say, “Yes! Peel the banana.”

To Work on Following Directions:

o You can also work on following directions and identifying items (in speech therapy we call this receptive language). This can be simple directions for toddlers “Give me the apple” paired with a gesture or even physically helping them follow the direction the first few times.

o For older kids, you can have them follow kid-friendly recipes with your help.

Some easy cooking activities that we like in our house:

• Roasted potatoes
• Fruit salad
• Muffins (in our house it’s usually from the box – ha ha!)

Please leave a comment below – I love to hear from readers!

If you cook with your child, what simple recipes do you recommend?

Does anyone out there use a Learning Tower? Do you think it worth the price?

Any ideas for entertaining your toddler in the car?
We are having a tough time with whining in the car over here ☹


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Cooking with your kids and toddlers is a great way to encourage language development and make traditions. Get your toddler talking with these tips! #speakplaylove #earlylearning #cookingwithkids #speechtherapy #speechtherapyactivities

Cooking with your kids and toddlers is a great way to encourage language development and make traditions. Get your toddler talking with these tips! #speakplaylove #earlylearning #cookingwithkids #speechtherapy #speechtherapyactivities How to let your toddler help you in the kitchen. Easy tips on helping your child learn to talk through simple cooking activities. #cookingwithkids #speakplaylove #speechtherapy #speechtherapyathome #languagedevelopment #earlyintervention



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